Due to lack
of money for living and lack of work in ORDLO territory (Temporarily occupied and uncontrolled territories of Ukraine),
locals make money through prostitution. For example, some DNR residents offer
sex through social networks and related sites.
Female
prostitution in the DNR
“Money is enough for living. You can receive 15 thousand hryvnias (about 550 USD) a month, says Anna from Donetsk. She asks for her name not to be indicated. – Clients meet us online.
On the
internet sites, women in this area are divided into cheap and luxury. They are
chosen by hair color, eyes, breast size and even the presence or absence of
intimate haircut. The lowest price is 400 UAH. The most expensive – 1600 UAH
per hour. Some may go to neighboring cities – Yasynuvata, Makiivka, Khartsyzsk.
But this is for proven clients.
Almost all
girls work for their safety in their own homes. – If a man wants to spend the
whole night – he pays about 3 thousand hryvnias. Most clients are rebels (pro
Russian terrorists). But girls do not like to work with them because many of
them are inadequate. “
Sometimes
clients include Russian mercenaries and residents of the Russian Federation who
come here for relatives or for business. Sex services in the LNR and the DPR
are cheaper than in the Russian Federation.
“Some
girls go for sex work to the neighboring Rostov region of Russia. There, the
earnings are several times higher,” adds Anna.
The
self-proclaimed ORDLO authorities forbade to stand on the track. Have sex only
in homes. There are multi-room apartments equipped with intimate services, but
they are guarded and accommodate only adequate people. If they see a man in a
state of alcohol or drug intoxication – they refuse. “
Male
prostitution in the DNR
There is also male prostitution in the Donetsk People Republic. Most often such services are used by other men, rarely by women. Intimate services are offered through the social network “VKontakte”.
“Boys are more likely to use the services of boys, especially men who are over 30 have money and want to diversify their lives. Such pleasure is not cheap – at least 400 hryvnias an hour,” says Denis from occupied Donetsk.
– “Boys on Call” are browsing the Internet and saying they are ready to give themselves to another man for a reward. Most often these are the young guys after university who have not been able to find a specialty job and are unable to leave their jobs for family reasons. Sometimes they write that they work, but they need money for clothes or food, so they agree to have sex with men, women, and even with several people at the same time. But having sex for money is dangerous for guys. Some of them do not meet on the field of departure and initially arrange a meeting in neutral territory. ”
Since real communication has almost completely shifted to the Internet, such a phenomenon as love through chatting on dating sites has become relevant to a large number of people. The number of virtual affairs has grown even more since social networks appeared. Now virtual love often competes with traditional relationships.
The main danger of virtual dating on dating sites has two aspects
your virtual girlfriend from dating site may not be who she claims, but that you begin to idealize her and exaggerate her image
without being able to her in person, her facial expressions, gestures and without hearing her voice, your imagination “conceals” all the details.
Why is this
happening? The desire to meet
the perfect partner distracts many men from the sober analysis of a person
sitting on the other side of a computer screen. You do not see the negative
qualities of the virtual girlfriend. In addition, for many men it is much
easier to write endorsements online than to say it in real life. In this way,
the virtual girlfriend has time to find the right words.
This is why your online
penpal may seem better than any person you see in real life. The idealization
of the virtual girlfriend makes you believe in the dream, so it is much easier
to fall in love with it.
Companion effect. An important factor contributing to the birth of a special closeness between the interlocutors of correspondence is the so-called “companion effect”. Its essence is that it is easier for us to trust many secrets to an unfamiliar person, knowing that we will not meet her again, and that person will not affect our further life.
In the case of online chatting, you just trust the person your secrets and receive the same in return. So there is a sense of closeness. Only, unlike a train companion, the virtual girlfriend stays close, and you continue to share your thoughts and feelings with her. If the “soul mate” appears on the other side of the screen, you find a response to your emotions and experiences. There is an open emotional exchange that people lack in real life.
Dependence on
emotions. Being able to share
a secret is a feeling that generates addiction that is sometimes compared to a
drug addiction. If for some reason the letter does not arrive on time or the
person does not appear online, then feelings related to the expectation are
described by people as breaking.
When chatting online,
people become addicted to the emotions they receive by reading another person’s
letter. And most emotions are made up by the man himself. There is a feeling
that no one else is capable of causing such experiences.
Reasons. At a distance, emotions begin to go wild because
of the inability to obtain bodily contact. Frustration due to the inability to
feel real closeness to a person every day nourishes the feelings.
Frustration is called a
psychological state that arises in a situation where a person is unable to meet
his or her needs and is experiencing a strong emotional experience. And strong
emotions, whether positive or negative, create a kind of “anchor”.
Real meeting. The sooner a real meeting takes place the less
false impressions you will have about each other. It will show where the truth
and where – the fiction. In this case, you should be prepared for any scenario.
Only after a real meeting, virtual and real communication may successfully complement each other for a while. The main feature of a healthy relationship between virtual partners is a mutual willingness to bring the relationship into real life. If your partner avoids a real meeting in every way, then you should urgently try to overcome your addiction, as it will interfere with building a real relationship.
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Hundreds of men from China come to Ukraine in search of women.
One Chinese businessman, looking for his wife, went on 80
dates at home, but they all ended in nothing. The 29-year-old resident of East
China’s Jiangsu Province met his bride in Ukraine.
A 19-year-old girl from Ukraine has already moved to China,
learning Chinese and preparing for marriage.
The history of this master is not uncommon. Although it is
difficult to calculate the number of such Ukrainian-Chinese couples, the
increasing interest of Chinese men to women from Ukraine is being reported in
marriage agencies in both Ukraine and China.
How do Ukrainian women attract men from China, why the
Chinese are looking for a couple so far from home and how in China they treat
Ukrainian women.
China needs women
In China, the number of men is higher than that of women
because of the long-standing policy of one child in the family. Often in China,
parents preferred boys, and when they found out that a girl would be born, they
had an abortion.
As a result, Chinese scientists estimate that by 2020, there
will be 30 million more single men in China than women seeking a couple.
While poorer rural men are trying to find women in
neighboring Vietnam, wealthier Chinese men who can afford it are traveling in
search of wives to the West.
This is a sign of status that they can afford. Previously,
interracial marriage was not common among the Chinese. More often, Western men
married Chinese. However, Chinese men now have more power and money.
Having a “tall blonde” is now considered
“prestigious” in China.
Why Ukrainian women?
Why do Chinese men go looking for women to Ukraine and how
do they perceive Ukrainian women in Chinese society?
“On the street, in the subway, and in the store, they
come up and say – what a beautiful person you are, they ask you to take a
photo, even if I am completely without makeup,” – tells her about her
experience of living in the Macau region of China, the Ukrainian Anna.
“Ukrainians are beautiful girls who do not have to pay
money for marriage, who will love and respect and clean up at home. And who are
very happy to leave Ukraine.” Another Ukrainian woman who spent four years
in Shanghai faced this attitude towards Ukrainian women.
Chinese men can try to find their “true love” in
Ukraine, because: they will not have to pay the bride’s family a penny. There
is simply no such tradition in Ukraine.
In China, it is stated that during the marriage, the husband
pays the bride’s family a certain amount and must have housing for the future
family.
In China, Ukrainian women are indeed considered very
attractive, although there are prejudices because of stereotypes about
Ukrainian women’s involvement in prostitution.
Marriages Ukrainians with the Chinese. What is the number of such marriages?
Ukrainian girls are increasingly marrying foreigners, and
this is a sign of the times.
If in 2002 there were 10 thousand such marriages, then in
2017 already 14 thousand citizens of Ukraine have dealt with foreigners.
However, this is only 6% of all marriages in the country.
The reason is globalization, in particular, that Ukrainians
have begun to travel the world more and foreigners are more likely to come to
Ukraine.
There is a tendency to marry foreigners as there are more
opportunities for dating. Sometimes the desire to marry a foreigner is a basic
need for security.
Ukrainian women are just looking for a better life, now
China is an economic boom, some Ukrainians are changing their habits, culture
and moving. There are both happy and difficult cases.
Although the number of marriages with Chinese people remains
low now, the trend is obvious: this figure is growing rapidly.
According to the Institute of Demography, in 2002 there were
28 such marriages, and in 2017 citizens of Ukraine and China have already made
90 marriages.
In most cases, these are marriages between Ukrainian women
and Chinese men, sociologists say.
However, it is only about marriages registered in Ukraine,
and how many were in China or other countries is unknown.
In 2017, about 11 million couples were married in China, 250
thousand in Ukraine.
How do Ukrainian women perceive Chinese men?
The fact that Chinese are increasingly looking for brides in
Ukraine, is also said in marriage agencies. But how do Ukrainian girls treat
Chinese men?
The owner of a marriage agency, which has been operating in
Ukraine for over 20 years, recently dealt with two agencies from China, for
which Ukrainian women were selected.
A woman says that, from her experience, Ukrainians are
cautious about dating Chinese:
“Attitudes toward men from the Far East are very
cautious because of the difference in mentality; they have no common themes.
Sometimes Ukrainian girls are outspoken with Chinese men, and there are even
some manifestations of racism.”
There is a story about a 40-year-old businessman from China,
whose meetings with Ukrainian women have not yet produced the desired result
for him. His search is ongoing.
“The Chinese have high expectations of girls – to be
with Mother Teresa’s character and appearance of the model. In order not to go
anywhere and have children,” – these are often the requirements that
clients from China make to Ukrainian women.
The owner of another Ukrainian marriage agency, which has
been working in Kiev for over 16 years, tells about the fears of Ukrainian
women to get acquainted with citizens from Asian countries. Thanks to this
mediation, dozens of men and women who announce their questionnaires get to
know each year. The agency has an average of five weddings a year. However,
there have been no marriages with Chinese citizens lately.
“It’s not about the country, it’s about finding your
own man. But for Ukrainian girls among foreigners, Europe is most interesting –
Germans, Swiss, Spaniards.”
Agencies say that sometimes, when a Chinese man marries a Ukrainian woman, his friends also turn their attention to this country.
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How not to run into scams on Ukrainian dating sites in search of love.
According to a 2018
Internet Crime Report, romantic online fraud damage totaled nearly $ 363
million. However, many victims lost all their savings or even went into debt. Due to the spread of this type of fraud online.
Here is a list of
common features that can help identify fraudsters (Ukrainian girls) looking for a key not to the victim’s heart, but to the victim’s wallet.
Pictures
Fraudsters, as a rule,
in their fake profiles use not their photos but pictures of models. In
addition, for the sake of credibility, fraudsters can steal photos of real
people. In both cases, you can do a quick check by back-searching your photos in the Google images section to protect yourself.
Too much love from the very beginning
You can identify
fraudsters by the way they communicate online. The main feature of online fraud is that your relationship develops too quickly and that you have a love word in the first few hours of communication. Scammers use this technique to make you forget about caution, and they can eventually reach their ultimate goal of accessing your funds.
It’s worth noting that most dating services allow you to block and report a profile of a potential scammer, and the moderation team can remove it.
Changing a platform
Another sign of the unintentional intent of the new virtual girl is to try to communicate with you on another communication platform. This may be due to the fact that on dating platforms there are ways to detect online fraud. To avoid run these mechanisms scammers trying to get your phone number or find your profile for messaging.
Remember, at the time of dating, you are already giving too much personal information to a person you practically do not know. If a new girl from a Ukrainian dating site immediately asks you to start chatting on another app or social network, be careful and better communicate this to the developers of the platform.
You cannot meet her
Another sign of online fraud is the inability to meet the other person. Whenever you try to schedule an appointment, there will be a new excuse for scammers. Whenever you try to schedule an appointment, there will be a new excuse for cheaters. A few cancellations are normal, but giving up every date should be a wake-up call for you to talk to your new girl about the real reasons for not wanting to leave the virtual space.
Asking money
After a while, the
scammers may try to ask you for money. As a rule, they initially ask for a
small amount to repair a car or buy medicine. But over time, they have steadily
increased the amount needed, often inventing new stories, such as paying for
their sick relative’s medical bills.
In Ukraine, about
300,000 new cyber-threats for information security are recorded daily. However,
it is extremely difficult to find fraudsters. Companies only have to conduct
minute-by-minute monitoring to detect cyber threats to block them further.
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I meet Oleg in front of the cafe. We descend into a cozy hall, sit down at a small table hidden in a corner of the room. We order herbal tea. Oleg is a programmer by profession, graduated from one of the leading universities in Kiev this year. For more than two years he worked on the Ukrainian paid dating site and corresponded with foreigners on behalf of young Ukrainian women. Singing teacher, music channel journalist, model, housewife, student – incomplete list of his online roles. Many have heard the walls of this cafe, but this is probably the first time.
Start
Everything
happened on the principle: “A person is shaped by his environment.” I
was a fourth-year student, lived in a campus and decided to change the room. In
the new apartment, he met the guys who worked in the business. One day I
noticed my new neighbors vividly discussing some correspondence. Every now and
then you hear the exclamations: “The new letter has come!”
At that
time, I already had experience on the Internet: I sat, clicked on sites,
increasing their traffic so that the owners “ripped off” from their
advertisers more money. For a month, I clicked for about six bucks – enough to top up my phone or buy a pack of
cigarettes.
One day he asked his neighbor who as it turned out was one of the organizers of this business, what they do. One day he inquired about a neighbor who, as it turned out, was one of the organizers of this business, what they do. It turned out they were just writing letters on dating sites and getting paid for it. It was spring, I just wanted to make some money for the summer. This is how I became a “translator” (“official” title of the guy’s position). Agreeing, I realized that I would actually correspond on behalf of a woman.
How the
system works
At first
glance, it seems like it’s just a dating site. But such portals are not
intended for people to find true love. In two years of work, I realized that
the goal of these sites is to “shake off” money from wealthy and
naive users. For them, all functions are paid: registration, correspondence,
chatting, gift exchange. Yes, to write one letter, you need to pay 5 bucks, the
next – another 5. About the same amount of registration costs. To put it
plainly, everything is 5 bucks.
Each such site has a “affiliate program“. This is a conditional name for how you can reach women. It works like this: there is an organizer or director of an agency whose job is to register as many profiles as possible. To do this, he, in particular, proposes to sign up to all the familiar girls in exchange for a part of the profit. If the girl agrees, she fills out a questionnaire with information about herself and provides the site administration with a copy of her passport to verify that she is a real person. Also, the girl records a video with the words: “I, <full name> voluntarily register my profile on site N”.
Next, the choice is up to the girl. If she wants, she can correspond with clients on her own, if not – translators like me correspond from her profile. From my experience, the majority of registered girls do not need online communication with foreigners, and they choose the second option.
With the consent
of the girls, the director may register their profiles on other sites. People
don’t even realize how many of these sites exist! I know of at least five,
worked for three of them. I will not be mistaken when I say that there are
dozens of such sites.
Profit
Salary depends on the amount of communication.
That is, the more I write letters, send presentations or chat, the higher my
monthly income will be.
Of the $ 5
a user pays for a message, approximately $ 3.5 is taken by the dating site
administration. The rest is shared between the director, translator, and
profile owner.
The sites
where I worked, the profit was distributed in approximately the following
proportion:
the agency director receives 40%;
translator – 50%;
the girl who’s profile was use for the correspondence – 10%.
If the girl
corresponds on her own, she gets 60% of the profit.
Can you
imagine the amounts you can raise? Specific numbers tend to be kept secret. But
I heard that the directors were making a lot of money on this, which allowed
them to vacation in Sri Lanka, Egypt, Spain and ride a BMW X-series.
In the
beginning, I worked with two profiles at the same time, so my first salary was
very modest: only $ 50-60. But then I did not know all the nuances and had no
experience. For example, sometimes you can take risks, put pressure on the
client, saying, “You do not love me, do not write to me.” However,
you should always be careful with this, as the client may complain to the site
administration about the blackmail and I will get a fine of 30 bucks.
I don’t
remember when my monthly income dropped below $ 100. I managed to earn 800 USD
as much as possible, and on the average I could earn up to 500 USD a month.
Communication with clients
The target audience of Ukrainian paid dating sites is mostly male foreigners from 35 years of age. The subject of communication is entirely client-dependent. From my experience, I can split users into two groups:
men seeking their sexual needs;
men who say, “I love you!” – and say they want to get married.
Now one
client constantly confesses in love, invites visit him to America, tells me
about his daily life every day. He recently purchased a house where he wants to
live with my heroine.
In
communication, I adjust to the client. It’s simple: if he writes about some of
his fetishes – well, I switch and start writing about sexual fantasies in
return. I avoid intimacy until the client starts to expand the subject himself.
Although the policy of the sites I worked on, this issue is not clearly spelled
out.
It is more difficult when the interlocutor is an intellectual and seeks love of his life. At first, I invented a lot, but now I don’t think much about pseudobiography. After all, fantasy is a finite thing, especially when you work from different profiles and have to live multiple lives. In addition, work in general is quickly becoming tedious. That is why I usually describe my day, adapting it to the personality of my heroine. Like, “Hi, dear! Today I was called for an interview, telling about my work. “
Customers rarely write first. Two or three users wrote me this for two years. There are a lot of profiles of girls, so my job is to get interested, to get a man to talk. After all, it’s a job I get paid for. So I usually start by sending a mass message of the same type like: “Hi, honey! I want to meet you / What brought you to this site? / Who are you looking for here? / Look at my new photoshoot! ” – etc. And I add a photo where the heroine is all so beautiful, walking down the street or swimming in the pool. Like, “Look, look what I am!” Generally, I always write the way I think without thinking about how a woman would write.
“Translators”
can work with one or more profiles. In fact, the number of heroines depends on
how much time and effort are available. The maximum number of profiles from
which I simultaneously corresponded – six. At the moment I only have one
profile.
The
duration of communication is very relative. There are users who have enough to
write out of twenty letters. There are those who send more, but there are very
few. An important role is played by the financial capacity of the client. They
communicate until they empty their wallet. One time I got a very special client.
He wrote about 2000 letters.
Recently,
an American invited to Trump’s inauguration wrote. He even sent a photo of the
event. Initially, I promised: I will come – we will meet. However, he stopped
writing. Very often, clients have seven Fridays a week.
This
cherished meeting
As for the dates, it all depends on whether
the girl on whose behalf I am writing agrees to such a meeting. If she does not
mind, the meeting can take place. Usually an interpreter or director comes with
her: he is fluent in English and can translate as needed.
If a girl
does not want to date, then this is how the scenario can develop. John, for
example, comes from America or Peter from Britain, goes to Kiev on the
Independence Square (Maidan) and writes:
– Dear, I’m here on the Maidan, come out!
– Where are
you? I’m on Khreshchatyk, – I ask him.
– I’m near
that monument.
– And I’m near
the theater.
There is a
simulation of a hide-and-seek game until a foreigner realizes that this is all
a scam.
The moral
component
I have different attitudes to work. When I
write about those who think the only thing is to come to Ukraine and lure a
young girl, I feel as if I am protecting Ukrainian women from old foreign
perverts (he’s laughing).
Yes, the
work itself is partially dishonest. But one must still have at least some
conscience and moral principles. For example, I know that one of the organizing
guys was short of earnings, so he registered his girlfriend, mother and sister
on the site. All three, of course, knew about it. These stories shock me.
Maybe two
years ago I was wrong when I went to work as a translator. Yes, I made money.
Yes, good money. But instead I could find a normal job and get a good
experience, develop new skills, be useful to the community. I regret that I did
not quit earlier. The only plus is improved English.
Several
friends knew who I was working for. They wondered if there were free profiles
and whether they could earn money. I immediately rejected them from this idea.
I feel that this has made a good contribution to their future, as both now have
a normal job. I’m out of this business right now: enough, it’s over. I want to
find a job in a profession that I will not be ashamed to talk about.
At the end
of the conversation, we go to the job search site. My interlocutor enters the
keywords: “translator” and “marriage agency”, and we find
many similar ads: “translator of English into a wedding agency”,
“translator, chat operator into a wedding agency”. Oleg looks at them
and smiles: he knows what the job description is silent about.
All characters’ names have been changed for the sake of anonymity. Illustrations by Anastasia Babash Article by Maria Matyashova
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More and more Ukrainian woman are looking for their love abroad.
In Soviet times, when there was an “iron curtain”, marriages with foreigners were considered as something fantastic. In the years of perestroika and in the “bad 90s” marriage to a foreigner for many Ukrainians was an opportunity for a better life. But by the 2000s, the demand for foreign grooms had declined. Today, as in the times of perestroika, Ukrainians dream of marrying a foreigner and going abroad.
One of the reasons is the difficult economic and political
situation in Ukraine. Some resourceful people even try to make money. There are
many ads on the Internet: “I will help marry a foreigner”, “I
will help find a foreign wife”.
In recent years, the number of Ukrainian women wishing to marry and go abroad has grown rapidly. Most beautiful women who travel to distant countries prefer to search for potential life companions on popular international dating sites. Some just go to rest in their chosen country and turn on “search mode”.
How Ukrainian women seek their love abroad
Get out of the crisis
In 2014, when the anti-terrorist operation began in the country and Crimea was already annexed to the Russian Federation, from January 1 to July 1, 2014 – around 1000 marriages of Ukrainian women with foreign citizens were registered in Ukraine.
“Ukrainians often marry Italians, Germans, Americans,
Poles, Belarussians and Russians. People get to know each other on social
networks, traveling, season works abroad and through marriage agencies. According
to statistics, one third of families have been divorced within 5 years.
Divorced are the couples married for the sake of profit. Divorce is filed by
women who have relied not on relationships but on partner’s money. Many are
divorced who have been married in order to obtain a citizenship document and
legalize their stay in another country.
Half of those divorced abroad return to their homeland. The
other half of Ukrainian women successfully settle there.
The crisis in Ukraine, the lack of men who take some
decisive action, some matriarchy have led women to take care of themselves, to
look for foreign men and those mediators who can offer them to foreign men.
Plus Ukrainian women have realized their beauty all over the world. Smart,
beautiful, well groomed, smart, sporty and active.
Bride safaris
One British newspaper told its readers about the “marriage industry” in Ukraine. They point out that the Ukrainian economy is not going through the best of times. On the other hand, the cattle market is booming, according to the newspaper. The following was a story about how marriage agencies arrange “bride safaris” for Americans, Brits and citizens of other countries.
“Bride Safaris” – this is how specific tours to
Ukraine are called in Britain and the United States. The sole purpose of this
tour is to meet men with Ukrainian women who dream of a rich and happy life
abroad. Single men pay special agencies for “romantic tours” to
Ukraine and the selection of the bride.
The tours are actively advertised in promotions on western
dating sites. For a fee, agencies make mass dates to their clients. Usually
these are older men. On a date about 30 foreign men choose their wives from 250
Ukrainian women.
“A romantic tour to Kiev offers you a unique
opportunity to visit a historic city from the former Soviet Union, the beauty
of which is overshadowed except by Ukrainian women. We offer the safest,
one-to-one, custom-made tours. Thousands of happy brides and grooms since 1995!
“- promises a well-known agency on its site.
Moreover, such meetings do not necessarily end with
weddings. For some it is entertainment, for others it is a serious matter.
“At home, our women are brought up to be independent.
They live their separate lives and do not take care of their husbands, as my
mother once did. I want an old-fashioned girl from the family where my father
was the main one. She got used to the fact that everything in the family is
decided by her husband. A woman should know her place, her responsibilities,
not act like a queen, “explained one of the agency’s clients on anonymity.
Widow ready for a new marriage
Experts say that according to statistics, one in fifteen Ukrainian women aged 40-49 are widowed. The shortage of men has increased even more since the onset of Russian aggression, which is why Ukrainian women are more likely to view foreigners as future husbands.
30% of Ukrainians would like to travel abroad for permanent
residence. And the bridal market is one of the easiest ways to get what you
want. A visa-free regime simplifies this procedure.
Ukrainian women are traveling abroad en masse, to EU
countries, USA, Asia, to the labor market, to the marital market, in any way to
provide for their family, to create perspectives and a basis for the success of
their children.
They are transformed into a product that is bought by
foreign men – literally or with certain promises and perspectives, which are
estimated as the price-quality ratio, expecting economic, social and status
benefits.
Dating scammers
Marriage is a great platform for scammers. Often, foreigners get into the web not of love, but of scams. The scheme is simple: a foreigner registers on the site, chooses a girl, and after some time after correspondence with the potential bride, problems arise that require money – for medication of a relative, for a trip to the foreign bridegroom, or just fired from work, and the loan hangs. If a man has serious intentions and has sympathy for the Ukrainian beauty, he sends money to help.
Subsequently, it turns out that no girl exists, and under the photo of the beauty hides a fraud. But up to the time of disclosure the cost of a trusting foreigner to the Ukrainian bride can amount to more than one thousand dollars.
For the truth of the schemes and the bigger “catch”, some scams hire girls, teach them to properly communicate with foreigners. If a foreigner wishes to come to Ukraine for personal communication, it pays more. Foreigners cannot prove that they have been robbed. You can always say that the girl just did not like the man. Bring to justice scammers on Ukrainian dating sites.
Foreigners are interested in young and beautiful Kiev city woman. And some women are willing to pay for a happy future
The beauty of Ukrainian girls advertised during Euro 2012 has increased the number of marriages in Ukraine. Foreign grooms literally attack Kiev. The number of proposals from them to “get merry with Ukrainian girl” or “marrying someone from Ukraine” on dating sites has increased tenfold. However, matchmakers also appeared here, offering Kiev women themselves to pay 100 US dollars for a wedding with a wealthy foreigner.
Grooms
Men from France, Finland, England, the USA, Germany, Poland, Italy began throwing Ukrainian dating sites with ads: “I am looking for a beautiful slender girl from Ukraine for serious relationships and marriage” or “A man from Europe for marriage”. All of them are over 35 years old, and they all write about money, saying they’re wealthy.
“Interested in meeting a Ukrainian woman of 28–42 years old to start a family and have children. She can have one child. I have my own business” – writes a 52-year-old groom from Germany. The man said that he began searching for his wife in Kiev after friends told how beautiful Ukrainian women are. “I’m a widower, I have my own child, but I want to get married again. In Ukraine, women can create coziness, very affectionate, so I decided to find a wife here,” the German said.
And the 47-year-old businessman Jeff from the USA is looking for a soul mate in Kiev because the press wrote what good traditions are in Ukraine. “Women from Ukraine besides being beautiful, they know how to cook, they are good,” he told.
Matchmakers
Among the mass of proposals for acquaintances with foreigners, there are announcements from Kiev match-makers. Those under the guise of a foreigner write what kind of bride they are looking for. “To contact Jacob from Zurich, you first need to meet with me,” matchmaker Tamara told us. According to the woman, she lives in Kiev, once worked in a marriage agency, and now for herself. “Without an agency, it’s much easier, I introduce those people who are just right for each other, since I’m also a psychologist,” the matchmaker praised us. And then she said that they would have to pay 100 USD for cooperation with her – 50 USD right away and 50 before the wedding with a foreigner: “I take an advance payment so that women take this seriously.” Marriage agencies of Ukraine are waiting for an influx of foreigners.
Is it safe to travel to Kiev
Kiev Ukraine ia s safe place to travel. Nothing special comparing to other Eastern European countries. You can always order a matchmakers service. But we offer you something different – your personal anti-fraud guide in Ukraine – a person you can trust. Our represantative will act as your personal interpreter and filter potential scammers. It’s a new level of safety, confidence and efficiency.
I am a foreigner man,this lately dated an Ukrainian lady online through internet,after exchanging letters and photos via Emails and watsap,we liked each other and we want to start a mutual life.I asked her for visit in Ukraine but she says she lives in Krasnodon city where there is a tension over the ukrainian theritories with Russia and entering in the city for me as a foreigner is difficult.I asked her to come to my country she said she has only a local passport and she needs to get her international passpoerl and a visa for traveling overseas which she cant afford its expenses,i told her send me a scan of your local passport for visa process,and she sent me.
her name was: Elena, ID: 3616181 on dream singles.
email: elenasult00@gmail.com
Elena LET’S CHAT! EMAIL ME
Age:
27
City:
Kiev
Country:
Ukraine
Zodiac:
Aquarius
Height:
5′ 6″ (167 cm)
Weight:
104 lbs (47 kg)
Eyes:
brown
Hair:
brown
Occupation:
Lawyer
Education:
graduate school
Religion:
Christianity
Marital Status:
never married
Kids:
0
Languages Spoken:
English, Russian
English Proficiency:
intermediate
Smoking:
no
Hobbies
Life is action, and I keep myself active with doing sports and ballroom dancing. But when I turn with my calm side, I like to paint and spend time with a good book. Not about love only.More About Me
I consider myself as ambitious with my goals in life, and being a good wife is one of them. I put responsibility on top, no matter is it about my lawyer job, or a private life. Being kind and having a bright optimistic look in life is important for me, as well as never to stop in self-improvement.Ideal Relationship
I believe that even totally different people can be in love, and I’m not concerned with prejudice and stereotypes. I’m adventurous and open in relationship and want you to be the same. Only you can see if I can be a good wife for you or not, but my devotion and care, striving to be best for you are guaranteed!Looking